What I’m Scared of The Most

Mediocrity, to me, is a disease. It's contagious if not careful. Especially at my young age, it's inevitable that I will be influenced and shaped by my surroundings, by the people I spend the majority of my time with.

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Here’s The Truth About What Men And Women Really Want In Love

Once you know the way your partner thinks and how they express their love, you will know what's the important thing to look for and how to meet your partner's needs.

What My Lovers Told Me

My lovers told me a lot of things -- mostly things about myself that I didn't realise I had or lacked thereof. Or things about themselves that I didn't anticipate or could have anticipated but chose not to. Sometimes they were just passing comments that my lovers would very soon conveniently forget but somehow they got stuck at the back of my mind.

When He Texts “Hey You”

You double tap one photo, then two. You drop a friendly comment. A few minutes later, your phone screen lights up with a text message from him -- Hey you! -- as though you're two good friends just catching up, no big deal.

Finding Me

I used to be in love with a hipster European boy. He was everything I wasn't (and still am not). He rode bike to work and around the city.

Don’t Waste This Life

It's terrifying to have to make all the important decisions not knowing if they are the right ones. But it's also liberating and wonderfully exciting because I get to make all the important decisions. I get to live my life the way I think is best for me and this is all what matters.

Please Swipe Left On Me

I don't see relationships as an end-goal or a measure of my self-worth. Speaking of which, I don't bring my self-worth into the mix when a relationship succeeds or fails. I know the outcome of a relationship is down to our compatibility, not worthiness -- worthiness is irrelevant.

I’m Tired of Trying to be Seen

I'm tired of feeling like there's something wrong with me, of explaining myself, of trying to seek approval from the people who have no intention to see me kindly at all. I'm sick of trying so fucking hard to be seen. I just can't do it anymore. I'm not perfect. I'm terribly flawed. I can be a mess. I'm not for everyone. And I accept it.