A Tinder Hook-up From An Inexperienced Girl’s Perspective

We matched on Tinder at 8 pm on a Friday night, yet he didn't message me. So I messaged him. Hey. He replied after a few minutes. Hey. And our conversation started.

What My Lovers Told Me

My lovers told me a lot of things -- mostly things about myself that I didn't realise I had or lacked thereof. Or things about themselves that I didn't anticipate or could have anticipated but chose not to. Sometimes they were just passing comments that my lovers would very soon conveniently forget but somehow they got stuck at the back of my mind.

I’m Tired of Trying to be Seen

I'm tired of feeling like there's something wrong with me, of explaining myself, of trying to seek approval from the people who have no intention to see me kindly at all. I'm sick of trying so fucking hard to be seen. I just can't do it anymore. I'm not perfect. I'm terribly flawed. I can be a mess. I'm not for everyone. And I accept it.

Sleeping With Him Won’t Make Him Stay

Now, it’s 3 am again and he’s in the same room with you. You tell yourself it’s cool and pretend like everything is okay. You try to talk to him like a friend and as promised, he refrains from making any physical contact with you. There seems to be a sense of awkwardness in the way your bodies move around each other. And it hurts a little.

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What A Smart Woman Knows

A smart woman is also aware of her privileges, disadvantages and weaknesses. She doesn't try to hide them but she faces them and grows with them.

The Three Men Every Woman Has Loved

I believe every woman who has loved has loved three kinds of men: the one who she loves in bed, the one who she loves at the dinner table and the one who she loves in her memory.

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Our Friday Night Doesn’t Have To End

We will talk about dreams and about being 20, about how lost we are and how overwhelming life is but maybe we don't have to be afraid anymore because we have each other.

7 Dating Lessons I Wish I’d Known Sooner

There is one thing you should always keep in mind: if someone really wants you, they will make time for you. If not, they will make excuses.